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Kristin Cuthriel

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Do You Fear Intimacy?

February 28, 2015 Kristin Leave a Comment

When we hear the word intimacy many of us think of physical intimacy. But true intimacy involves a lot more than physical touch. It involves vulnerability. It is to know and truly be known by another. Intimacy involves letting your guard down and lowering your defenses. A … [Read more...]

Psychology, Relationships fantasy bond, fear of intimacy, Intimate relationship, true intimacy or a fantasy bond, what is intimacy

The Difference Between True Intimacy and the Fantasy Bond

January 14, 2015 Kristin Leave a Comment

Do you know the difference between true intimacy and the fantasy bond? (Some of you may have seen this on my blog about two years ago, but I thought I would post it again for those who may have missed it. So here goes...) Many people confuse the fantasy bond with true intimacy. … [Read more...]

Relationships fantasy bond, fear of intimacy, Interpersonal relationship, Intimate relationship, Robert Firestone

Vulnerability Is Necessary to Achieve True Intimacy

June 6, 2014 Kristin 3 Comments

Many couples struggle with a fear of intimacy. They fear getting too close emotionally because they don't want to get hurt. Letting their guard down feels too risky. They don't like feeling vulnerable. Just the other day I was working with a couple whose relationship was built … [Read more...]

Psychology, Relationships, Self Help Emotion, Emotional intimacy, fantasy bond, fear of intimacy, fear of vulnerabilty, Intimate relationship, snowball effect, the snowball effect, vulnerability

True connection, vulnerability, and a fear of rejection

October 7, 2013 Kristin 4 Comments

"I define connection as the energy that exists between people when they feel seen, heard, and valued; when they can give and receive without judgment; and when they derive sustenance and strength from the relationship." -Brene Brown In order to have an authentic connection, both … [Read more...]

Relationships, Uncategorized Brene Brown, fantasy bond, fear of abandonment, fear of intimacy, fear of rejection, fear of vulnerabilty, healthy relationships, vulnerability

Knowing the Difference Between True Intimacy and the Fantasy Bond

May 3, 2013 Kristin 11 Comments

Do you know the difference between true intimacy and the fantasy bond? Many people confuse the fantasy bond with true intimacy. Although these two styles of relating may appear similar to outsiders looking in, they are indeed very different. … [Read more...]

Psychology, Relationships Fantasy, fantasy bond, fear of abandonment, fear of intimacy, health, Interpersonal relationship, Intimate relationship, mental health, relationship, Robert W. Firestone, true intimacy, true intimacy or fantasy bond

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